Working women with families

Photo: Timothy Herbert/OxfamAUS

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As I’ve mentioned in the past, all the workers in my section are women. Many of them are married and have children. Most of their husbands also work at factories.

Couples who are both working full time usually have their children cared for by grandparents or relatives. In other sections at my work there are male workers whose wives don’t work. These males just live in urban rental accommodation while their wives and children live at home back in rural villages. If both husband and wife work around Jakarta, their children will generally live with grandparents back at the village.

A friend of mine at work recently got her second warning letter because she often missed work. The reason why she didn’t attend work is because she had to return to the village to see her children. For example, she might go back to the village on Friday night. To do this she would have asked for permission to skip overtime (Saturday is generally the overtime day). Then she would come back on Sunday evening or night. On Monday, sometimes she couldn’t come to work because she would be exhausted from the journey.

Another friend of mine recently became a single parent. Her child is less than a year old, but her husband deserted both of them. Whether she likes it or not, she has to work full time to support her child. In the beginning, she could leave her child in the care of her older sister. But after a few months she had to put the child in the care of her neighbours, because her older sister also got work at the factory.

She has never complained to me, but I can sense that it is difficult for her. Once, her neighbour called during working hours. Her neighbour said that she was loosing her mind trying to calm the child who could not stop crying. It seemed that my friend had forgotten to leave a bottle of milk with the neighbour.

Another friend of mine is the leader of an organisation, but he often has to miss out on attending its meetings. He usually returns home on the weekends because his child and wife live back in a village. But he’s confused about what he should do. He is needed within the organisation, and with our working hours, organisational meetings are more often than not held on weekends, at the only time he can go home to visit family.

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Photo credit: Timothy Herbert/OxfamAUS

Indonesian Version – Versi Bahasa Indonesia

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